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The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice. (Peggy O'Mara)

The mistake that Sharon and I both made is we never set any boundaries.  (Ozzy Osbourne)

"Unexpressed feeling never die. They are buried alive and come back later in ugly ways." (Stephen Covey)

You cannot reason with someone who is being unreasonable.

"Parents aren't the cause of ADHD, but they are part of the solution." (Kenny Handleman, M.D.)

If there is no relationship - nothing else matters !

Don't wait for him to turn 10 before you reveal that you are not in fact the hired help whose job it is to clean up after him.

Wouldn't it be nice if children would simply listen and learn.

Children mimic well. They catch what they see better than they follow what they hear.

The quickest way to change your child’s behaviour is to first change your own.

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Face of Facebook (bullying)

I had an opportunity last night to attend a presentation by Katie Cole (Thames Valley District School Board) which focused on the ugly side of social media. My reason for going was that I am not at all into these modern forms of communicating (Facebook, Twitter, etc) but I am frequently asked to deal with the fallout of bullying that has taken place through these sites. Katie gave a very thorough and informative description of both the good and bad aspects of social media and highlighted many tips about how to educate and protect our children. She also outlined the efforts that school boards are initiating in this area, but it has become very clear that there are increasing numbers of  serious problems associated with these modern forms of communicating. The harsh reality is that social media is not going to go away and the problems are unquestionably going to increase. I applaud the efforts of people like Katie Cole and Bruce Langford who put so much effort into educating children all over Ontario on the safe use of social media.

One area of this problem that appears to be somewhat overlooked is the coaching of  children that are being bullied.  Individual coaching of children is one of the services I provide and it has made a world of difference for many children who are struggling by being bullied. I meet with the child and parents a number of occasions and teach them skills to diffuse bullying. I provide knowledge, support, encouragement and accountability which has been shown to empower children to solve their problems themselves.

Rick Harper of Behavioural Management Systems has been providing ideas to parents and children for over 40 years.

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Workshops

+ Behaviour Management

This full day or 2 evening workshop will introduce you [...]

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+ Lick Your Kids

  “Lick Your Kids” (figuratively not literally) (2 hours) First [...]

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+ A Parent’s Guide to the Teenage Brain

  A teenager’s brain is not just an adult brain [...]

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+ Reading Rescue

A program for children with reading problems

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+ Taming a Toddler

Many parents wonder what hit them when their sweet little baby turns into an unreasonable toddler – ideas for dealing with mealtime, bedtime, temper tanturms, toilet training, noncompliance, etc.

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NOL 2BO

Phone: (519) 485-4678
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Email: info@rickharper.ca

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“We were so naive. We thought our son’s poor behaviour was just a phase he was passing through. Thankfully you led us ‘out of the wilderness’”

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