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There has been an explosion in the prescribing of medication for very young children, particularly preschool and kindergarten boys (Juli Zito , Univ. of Maryland)

It is what we say and do when we're angry that creates the very model our children will follow when dealing with their own frustrations.

Setting limits teaches your children valuable skills they will use the rest of their lives. One day, they will report to a job where their ability to follow rules will dictate their success.

Good parenting requires sacrifice. Childhood lasts for only a few brief years , but it should be given priority while it is passing before your eyes

Children mimic well. They catch what they see better than they follow what they hear.

Simple rules adhered to when children are young can prevent more serious problems later.

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Advice for Parents re: getting to dry

Advice for parents re: bladder training It makes some sense to reduce the intake of water after supper. Even adults who have consumed larger amounts to drink shortly before bedtime may find themselves being wakened more in the middle of the night by the urge to go to the bathroom. For a bed wetting child, drinking a lot before bed may be asking for trouble. So after the child eats supper – liquids could be […]

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Getting to Dry – continued

Bladder Training (Part 3 – continued) There was an interesting experiment a few years ago at a hospital in Helsinki, Finland. The researchers divided a number of enuretic children ranging in age from 6 to 13 into 2 groups. One group was repeatedly instructed NOT to drink anything at all in the evening. The other group was urged to drink more than normal during the entire day. By the end of the experimental period, the fluid […]

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Dry Bed Training (part 3)

Dry Bed Training (Part 3) Treatment Options # 1-4 1.Habit Changing – reduce fluid intake after supper may be a reasonable start – reduce fluids containing caffeine – ensure the child “completely” voids before bed 2. Rewards & Punishments – using rewards and punishments for a behaviour while sleeping us usually a no win situation – rewards MAY have a place but there will be no greater reward for the child than to wake up […]

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Dry Bed Training (part 2)

Dry Bed Training (Part 2) Bedwetting is a “pain” for everybody – particularly for the child: – waking up cold & wet feels horrible – bathing every morning isn’t fun for a little kid – skin irritations hurt – siblings can be cruel – overnight camp is out of the question – sleep overs at a friends house are problems – child feels that he/she is the only kid that wets the bed – family […]

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Dry Bed Training

      Dry Bed Training (Part 1) Many of the parents who contact me regarding behaviour issues with their children also deal with bed wetting, and dry bed training is sometimes a secondary goal that we address. First the Good News ! 1. Bedwetting is not an illness. 2. Bedwetting is not the child’s fault. 3. Bedwetting is not the parent’s fault. 4. Bedwetting can contribute to emotional problems ~ but it’s not inevitable. […]

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  “Lick Your Kids” (figuratively not literally) (2 hours) First […]

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+ A Parent’s Guide to the Teenage Brain

  A teenager’s brain is not just an adult brain […]

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+ Reading Rescue

A program for children with reading problems

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Many parents wonder what hit them when their sweet little baby turns into an unreasonable toddler – ideas for dealing with mealtime, bedtime, temper tanturms, toilet training, noncompliance, etc.

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